i am a well educated broadminded married man of 40 years having a satisfied and physically fit married life. for past few years somehow , thought of my wife making out with her friend has become a big turn On for me. I am not able to understand this phenomina. Is it normal ? if i open this topic when we r together then things go really great. I also notice her arousal. I really feel like watching her enjoy with her friend and if we come togather after that I would shower love upon her. Is this normal ?
There is no judgmental answer as right or wrong.
The issues to be considered are-
1. possibility of emotional attachment to the 3rd person or by 3rd person and conflict in marriage
2. having sex with another person’s wife is a crime by law
3. possibility of blackmail and extortion
4. safe sex measure of using condoms to prevent STI and HIV
above issues will not arise my problem is How i get extremely excited by the thought that my wife is making sex with her friend? Is it a mental disorder ?